

Our Values
Compassion
We care deeply for patients facing the crisis of cancer, and strive to ease their burdens through our core programs.
Dignity
Integrity
Kindness
We exude politeness and warmth when we answer the phone, respond to emails, and engage with cancer patients and their families.
Making a difference
We work tirelessly to make a notable difference in each patient’s quality of life by providing emotional, practical, and financial support.
Reliability
We are dependable and fulfill our commitments to support cancer patients throughout their journey.
Teamwork
We work together to solve problems, using our collective strengths to meet the needs of those we serve.
Our Team
Staff
Our staff has more than 60 years of experience serving patients and their families. We understand what it’s like to live with cancer.
Board of Directors
Guiding our mission is a Board of Directors who share decades of leadership experience in healthcare, financial management, nonprofit management, banking, and cancer support.
Brenda Cobb, MSW, ACSW
Community Liaison & Medical Social Worker, Interim Healthcare
Megan Frost
Director of Web & Digital Strategy, Old Dominion University
Linda Hartman, Secretary
Community Volunteer
Clayres Johnson, BSN, RN, CBCN
Oncology Nurse Navigator, Sentara Brock Cancer Center
Bob Larmore
Community Volunteer
Michelle Little
Market Executive, Bank of America
Brennan O'Connor, CPA, Treasurer
Chief Financial Officer, Sasser Construction
Molly Prindall
President, Healthcare Executive Connections
John E. Searing, Board Chair
Financial Advisor, UBS Financial Services
Mary Carol Tazewell
Community Volunteer
Annie Filer Vogt, Vice Chair
Vice President of Development, Virginia Symphony Orchestra
Jennifer Waldholtz
Director, Estate and Gift Planning, American Cancer Society
Our History
Lee’s Friends, an award-winning non-profit organization providing support for cancer patients and their families in Hampton Roads, was named for 16 year old Lee Harkins who died in 1978 of Hodgkin Lymphoma, a type of cancer affecting the lymphatic system. Prior to her diagnosis, Lee enjoyed being outdoors riding her bike or playing tennis. She especially loved swimming and canoeing during trips to her family’s log cabin in Ontario. Lee adored owls and collected them in various forms, from stuffed animals to photographs. Today, the Lee’s Friends logo includes an owl, paying homage to Lee and her love of nature. Lee attended The Williams School and Maury High School in Norfolk, and was a member of Christ and St. Luke’s Episcopal Church.
Lee approached her cancer with remarkable courage, humor, and determination. Even as she battled her disease, Lee constantly thought of others who did not have the same access to support or resources as she did. Before she died, Lee – alongside her parents, Emily Harkins Filer and George Harkins – established the Lee Harkins Endowment Fund to provide support to cancer patients in need. In 1979, Lee’s mother and nine family friends founded Lee’s Friends, bringing a remarkable young woman’s vision to life.
The mission of Lee’s Friends is to offer free person-to-person help and emotional, practical, and financial support to cancer patients and their families facing the crisis of living with cancer. We envision a Hampton Roads where no one battles cancer alone, fulfilling Lee’s wish to help others live with cancer. Lee’s Friends received tax exempt status as a 501(c)3 non-profit organization in 1990.
Lee’s Friends has garnered multiple honors and awards in recognition of our service to cancer patients in Hampton Roads:
Our History
Lee’s Friends, an award-winning non-profit organization providing support for cancer patients and their families in Hampton Roads, was named for 16 year old Lee Harkins who died in 1978 of Hodgkin Lymphoma, a type of cancer affecting the lymphatic system. Prior to her diagnosis, Lee enjoyed being outdoors riding her bike or playing tennis. She especially loved swimming and canoeing during trips to her family’s log cabin in Ontario. Lee adored owls and collected them in various forms, from stuffed animals to photographs. Today, the Lee’s Friends logo includes an owl, paying homage to Lee and her love of nature. Lee attended The Williams School and Maury High School in Norfolk, and was a member of Christ and St. Luke’s Episcopal Church.
Lee approached her cancer with remarkable courage, humor, and determination. Even as she battled her disease, Lee constantly thought of others who did not have the same access to support or resources as she did. Before she died, Lee – alongside her parents, Emily Harkins Filer and George Harkins – established the Lee Harkins Endowment Fund to provide support to cancer patients in need. In 1979, Lee’s mother and nine family friends founded Lee’s Friends, bringing a remarkable young woman’s vision to life.
The mission of Lee’s Friends is to offer free person-to-person help and emotional, practical, and financial support to cancer patients and their families facing the crisis of living with cancer. We envision a Hampton Roads where no one battles cancer alone, fulfilling Lee’s wish to help others live with cancer. Lee’s Friends received tax exempt status as a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization in 1990.
For over four decades, Lee’s Friends has been helping people in Hampton Roads live with cancer through our core programs: transportation, emergency humanitarian grants, and emotional support. Since 2015, Lee’s Friends has provided over 15,000 rides to and from medical appointments, awarded nearly $685,000 in emergency humanitarian grants to 2,993 patients in financial crisis, and supported the emotional well-being of countless patients and their family members along their cancer journey.
Emily Harkins Filer served as Executive Director for 22 years until she retired in 2001; Emily died in 2021 at age 85. Carol Olsen, CVA, currently serves as the organization’s Executive Director.
Awards
- Volunteer Achievement Award, VOLUNTEER Hampton Roads, 2001, 2004, 2007, 2010, 2011, 2021
- Extraordinary Service Award, Norfolk State University Women’s Economic Development Center, 2014
- Health Care Heroes Community Service Group, Inside Business, 2013
- Community Service of the Year, Norfolk State University School of Social Work, 2004
- Safe Harbor Award, Children’s Harbor, 2003
- L.D. Britt, MD Community Service Award, 1997
- Honored Community Leader, First National Congress on Cancer Survivorship, 1995
- Outstanding Organization, Virginia Council on Social Welfare for the State of Virginia, 1993
- Virginia Volunteer Administrator Award, 1992
- Outstanding Organization, Virginia Council on Social Welfare for the Tidewater District, 1992
- Distinguished Merit Award, National Conference of Christians and Jews, Inc., 1992
- J.C. Penney Golden Rule Award Hampton Roads, 1990
- Governor’s Gold Medal Award for Volunteer Excellence, 1989
- President’s Volunteer Action Award, 1982
- The Community Service Award, Jewish Community Center of Tidewater, 1982
A Tribute to Lee Harkins
A young girl died this spring. It was seemingly an untimely death, doubly sad, for she, like the earth, was still in her first season. My tidy mind balked at the thought of the interrupted cycle, the unfinished business of her life, the ends of experience not neatly tied. Yet her mother showed me photographs taken on a trip shortly before her death. A terrible disease has melted away the adolescent softness of her face and unveiled the beauty of the full blown bloom she was to become. Blue eyes, startling large, laughing out of a tanned face. Strong nose and chin, elegant cheek bones. The unadorned beauty of the fashion model in a summer layout. And her courage. Oh, the steady going on with the business of life in the midst of pain and anxiety. It took no notice of the fall signs, life slowing down like nature itself in those months. It ignored the nip in the air of colder, darker days to come. There was humor too, leaping at you unexpectedly like the autumn squirrel from a bare branch. She had learned a winter wisdom, the peace of the very old who come to accept today as a gift and regret not yesterday nor count on tomorrow. She warmed her hands in front of the fire of love from her family and friends and radiated that warmth back onto the givers. She, in a short time, fashioned a life more full than many five times her age. She gleaned everything important a man must know to make his living a finished product. The seasons of her life proceeded, if too rapidly, in good order. When she left the world, her cycle was complete, from taker to giver, helplessness to strength, babe to sage.
"The Complete Lee" by Jane P. Batten, 1978
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